Parbati Khadka

Menstruating for the first time, Grandma asked Kaiyo. I had given Kaiyo. Grandmother began to cut. Seeing that, I woke up feeling that I am a secondary person, I felt like I was useless at this time. These words were narrated to us by psychologist Kanchan Rawat. This question is asking you for an answer from everyone. When the women did not menstruate, the total amount of resuscitation would be Rs. Grandmother used to take care of the housework. Grandmother would put her mother in a maze and give her a separate piece of rice. As far as I understand, I would never go near my mother at such a time. My mother never said that nothing would happen if I touched her. My understanding was that the mother should not be touched.As the fifth-grade exams were approaching, Khatiwada of the neighborhood would not send his daughter to study for 4-5 days as it would be a sin to touch the book at such a time. Some time ago, during school time, my friend who was sitting on the bench with me had menstruation. She made me lie and she ran away from school. Many have found out that she had menstruation. There was blood all over his bench.Our home education was like that. I was terrified that the house would get dirty and I would get angry because of what I touched. I tricked my mother and told her not to touch me one day. I wanted to prove then that I was ugly. When I left home I came to the city to study on campus.Having lived with my relatives for some time, I have had a very different experience. There are also educated people in our family. Those who are not able to get out of the darkness of this tradition. From that day on, education destroyed the house of my belief that the roots of superstition would be uprooted. My mother, not my father, taught me what to expect from a mother. At home, more women than men are involved in this. Our patriarchy has circularly dominated women. Megan Kelly, an American journalist working for Fox News, was menstruating in her office. He had to leave the office after bleeding. In the first Republican presidential debate, Donald Trump did not acknowledge this, but instead mocked Kelly’s pain, saying that he had speculated that blood might have come out of Kelly’s nose. In the West, labor competition between men and women began.In this regard, a philosopher named Felice Slafley said that women are unable to ejaculate evenly due to weak hormones. Although there is no society in the world without religion and culture, it is wrong to keep women in separate bags because of the same religion and culture.I am also being raised by this society. It is customary for women to stay away from cooking and housework during menstruation. Even women from far away are in pain. They are dying of famine every year while living in the cowshed. In the Jewish and Islamic communities of Hindus in India and some tribes in Nigeria, the practice of keeping women away from their families for fear of transmitting the disease during menstruation is still practiced today. In Nepal and India’s Rajasthan, and, in Indonesia Bangladesh, menstruating women are separated from their families. In the Shinto religion, women are allowed to pay attention to bathing and cooking during this time. Entry to the temple is prohibited. We are hiding the same thing from the process by which people are born. We women suffer from physical pain during menstruation. On top of that, separation from family adds more mental pain.Alma Gottlieb, a professor of women’s health sciences at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, says menstruation is the magic of women.